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"When Jesus turned and saw them following, he said to them, "What are you looking for?" They said to him, "Rabbi(which translated means Teacher), where are you staying?" He said to them, "Come and see." They came and saw where he was staying, and they remained with him that day. It was about four o'clock in the afternoon." John 1:38-39

What are you looking for? If you are pregnant with holy longings and yearn for a fuller life in God -- read on. If you dream of finding the meaning of life and how to live a purposeful life -- read on. If you desire to know this Teacher, Rabbi Jesus in a deeper way -- read on.

How do we know anyone? Spending time together is essential in getting to know someone. Quality time is often more important than quantity time. I love to spend time with my dearest friends. I love getting to know them better over the years. I cherish learning about their deepest thoughts and dreams. I love being comfortable enough to even sit quietly together without words in companionship. Sometimes I learn more about them through a moment of insight, but often my knowing them is the ongoing result of years of growing and deepening friendship.

Our spiritual relationships with God also grow and deepen with time. Sometimes knowing God is the result of combining personal knowledge and experience. Other insights may be more intuitive and instinctive. But there is no substitute for spending time together. Relationships with people take commitment and time, so why should a relationship with God be any different?

God is extremely approachable and available with all the time in the world. We are offered friendship with God through the remarkable person of Jesus Christ. These two disciples show us a new way of knowing God. They figuratively took off their watches and lingered throughout the evening with Jesus in unhurried conversations. They probably had moments of deep silence. They shared food. Perhaps they laughed in delight when they realized how approachable Jesus was. All their questions were welcomed and met in an attitude of deep respect. Through their initial time with Jesus, they experienced the richness of spiritual hospitality, generosity and sanctuary. Jesus was pleasant to be with and these seekers were in no hurry to leave.

These two disciples show us how to linger in the presence of Jesus. If you follow their example, your life will never be the same.

Prayer: Holy God, help us linger in conversation and companionship with Jesus. Like those disciples, we would like a lifetime of spiritual renewal and healing. Help us take a gentle chance with the Sacred. Empower our quest for spiritual truth and life. Help us find what we are looking for. Amen.

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